







February 04, 2008 9:00:am
I read that in Utah binge drinking starts as early as sixth grade. I think it is up to Utah's community to solve the growing problem of underage drinking. What can we do as a community to become involved in the solution to stop underage kids from drinking? What can we do as parents? What can we do as neighbors?
I really push my kids to tell me where they are going, what they are doing, and who they are going to be with! i know they don't like it sometimes, but I feel it is necessary.
I think parents are the key to the solution. When a parent sets clear rules and consequences kids don't dare to disobey. But, its hard to enforce rules when we try so hard to be their friends.
I always like to drop by unannounced. I know it can be embarrassing for my kids at times, but it helps them realize I am always going to keep in contact with them and know what they are doing. Its fun to find ways to drop in! Bring chips to the party or send them a text message.
My neighbor would stop by my house if they knew I was gone on errands and kids were there with friends. It was a simple, "Hey is your mom home?" and it made a word of a difference to the kids....because now they knew an adult was still in a picture. I love my neighbors! Thank you.
Great article, thank you again for writing it.
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A Combined Effort
by Suzy on June 03, 2009 01:32:00pm
You're absolutely right. The data shows there are things in the community that do affect whether or not youth use alcohol. May I offer a couple suggestions... One thing that can be a huge help is if a child has a positive relationship with an adult in the community other than their parents. So, as individuals, we can be that other adult that seeks to build meaningful relationships with youth in our community. Secondly, low neighborhood attachment is another risk factor that contributes to the use of alcohol or other drugs. So, throw a block party or find other ways to get to know your neighbors. These are just a couple simple things that can make a big difference.